Thursday, April 30, 2015

How to Deal with Annoying Co-Workers



How to Deal with Annoying Co-Workers
G. W. Goodrum, Jr.

As a manager you have to consider multiple solutions when dealing with employees of different backgrounds, gender and age.  Thinking about the advice from the authors and relational communication skills made a lot of sense.  Look inward, look for the positive, let it roll off your back, and be happy they aren’t in my family.

 How to Deal with Annoying Coworkers
In this paper I provide my thoughts on the following article, “How to Deal With Annoying Co-Workers, by Allison Green.  I will share a time when I’ve encountered one of the six types of people described in the article: The interrupter, the know-it-all, the slacker, the grump, the speakerphone lover or the blabbermouth.  In this paper I will describe a particular situation and how I dealt with the individual.  Finally, I will address using some of the advice given by the author of the article, and what I can do the next time I encounter a person of this type. 
In the article, “How to Deal with Annoying Co-workers”, the author Allison Green (2011) described six common types of annoying co-workers and provided solutions on how to deal with them.  The author actually uses satire to validate her points.  The article was insightful and identified several people that we have known over the years.  The solutions in the article are quite indicative of how to deal with annoying co-workers that we have come in contact with.
 The challenge for this assignment was to choose on individual, one scenario and one possible solution for dealing with annoying co-workers.  Most of my past and present coworkers fit into the know-it-all and the blabber mouth categories.  The know-it-all has an opinion on everything and loves to tell you how to do your job better and the blabbermouth who goes on and on and on, (Green, 2011).  
While living and working in Thule, Greenland, there aren’t a lot off base activities that you can participate in, especially during the winter when the sun doesn’t shine.  For three straight months there is no sunlight and the darkness rules for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  To combat the darkness Thule residents normally gather at the club or bowling alley for adult drinks and beverages.  These are considered the good times at Thule.  Then there are the occasions when living in close proximity of the same people that you work with on a daily basis can test your fortitude.   
During normal duty hours tempers have a tendency of being short and situations can potentially escalate and spiral out of control.  This is when the know-it-all person seems to be at their worst.  One of my coworkers was progressing in his training, but decided to have a conversation with the Site Manager that he could improve training numbers and have others trained faster by using his methods.  After he and the Site Manager finished talking, he called me into his office and informed me that we were going to adopt his method on a trial basis and see where it goes. 
My coworker knew the manager was new and he wanted to make a first impression on his.  Before I could inform the site manager with my concerns, he forwarded an email to his boss and without mentioning my displeasure in listening to this person.  This particular know-it-all coworker had been on the job for about four months and wanted to change the training procedures from day one.  His plan was to negate reading the training material and go directly into tracking satellites. 
Within the first couple of days of implementing his training strategy, he received a reprimand for not adhering to established satellite support procedures.  If my coworker had he been trained the correct way, he would have avoided this critical error.  The solutions that Green (2011) proposed for the know it all, was an opportunity to let it roll of my back.  Scivicque (2012) provides more alternative solutions when dealing with annoying coworkers.  A greater emphasis is placed on you as an individual and not the annoying coworker.  Her advice consisted of having you look inward at yourself, appreciating diversity and looking for the something positive from your coworker. 
When dealing with coworkers in an organization, managers have to consider the individuals background, gender, and age when formulating solutions for annoying coworkers.  Considering the advice from the authors and relational communication skills made a lot of sense.  Look inward, look for the positive, let it roll off your back, and be happy they aren’t in my family.  In the future when I encounter a know-it-all, I will use the advice given by both Green and Scivicque on how to deal with annoying coworkers.  Scivicque (2012) stated, “Annoying or not, you still have to work with these people.”  In short, creating an atmosphere of inclusion will establish the bond necessary for relational partners to interconnect. 
In this paper I have provided my thoughts on the article, “How to Deal with Annoying Co-Workers, by Allison Green.  I’ve shared a specific occasion when I encountered one of the six types of people described in the article: The know-it-all.  I described a particular situation and how I dealt with the individual.  Finally, I addressed using some of the advice given by the authors, and what I can do the next time I encounter this type of person. 

             




References
Green, A. (2011).  How to Deal With Annoying Co-Workers? Retrieved from        

           


Scivicque, C. (2012).  How to Deal With Annoying Coworkers? Retrieved from

           


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